He wants so badly for you to "act the bad guy", he's just baiting you to do so. The WAS does that to reinforce the crazy rationalizations they've constructed. When you refuse the play, you throw a HUGE wrench in the works. Keep ignoring the bait.

Accuray

Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015