I think your response was perfect -- two sentences, to the point. Perfect! He must have really twisted himself up to cast himself in the helpless victim role. You didn't even acknowledge his ridiculous accusation, and you let him know that if he wants to D, he has to do the work. It must have taken an incredible amount of strength not to get sucked into a longer response. I applaud you for that -- well done!
Accuray
Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11 Start Reconcile: 8/15/11 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced) In a New Relationship: 3/2015
