Rachael, Some come around and others don't. Some will say that by having sex, it keeps the connection w/the mlcer. I personally, feel that it is cake-eating. Also, if your man is out there running the streets having an affair or two, I would strongly urge you to be tested for STDs as soon as possible. When they are on the loose like this, they aren't thinking with the right head and believe me, there have been a few posters that have reported contracting STDs on this board and other boards as well.
Please understand that when they are like this, you do not want to become a doormat and allow him to have his cake and it too.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
