Hang in there - hopefully keeping your D occupied is helping pass the time for you as well.
It is kind of sad to think that these moments are spent truly just "passing time" for you and your D while waiting to hear from your H.
I hope that sometime you can look back on it as you would an illness and recognize that you all got better and got back to your usual life. Not unlike a few months ago when you all had that never-ending URI (upper respiratory illness).
I admire your strength and resolve. This week has to be painful. Just remember that we are all here to help you work through your pain, anger, confusion and whatever else you are feeling.
I may be around later tonight or tomorrow afternoon if you'd like to chat a bit.
(((((OPT and DD)))))
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"Accentuate the positive, eliminate the negative..."