Tad,

I understand that you are venting. You got a bit of a sucker punch.

So...this is kid glove stuff:

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(Seems to me that if she loved him, she wouldn't be happy without him.)


It's borderline co-dependancy if you are only happy if with someone...and its unfair to that person to be responsible for your happiness.

I am happy without my wife.
I am happy with my wife.
I prefer to be around my wife.


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