Is there hope for you (plural)? Oh yeah...but you don't let that bitch drive the car, you'll wake up in a body cast and your car strewn over 5 lanes out of 6 on the highway. Keep hope as a tool to keep going, but...that's about it.
Is there hope for you (singular)? Oh...man, without a doubt. Without a doubt.
Here is the problem with any OM. ANY of them...ANY.
Don't trust them. They are not your friend, they are not your ally, they don't give a crap about you. At worst you are an obstacle to them, in regard to your spouse, or at best?
How many friends do you have that might have already said: "Move on?"
She has those friends too...the OM is one of them.
The worst type are the OM's who say: "Stay together, work on it." But every other word, action or expression destroy that message.
There is a logical dettached way to make it through.
Confronting the again OM? Is not a part of that, right now.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
