As I read through a some of your posts, the FB thing struck a cord with me. Before W and I got separated, she was on FB ALL THE TIME. I don’t know if it’s because I was insecure with myself, our marriage or both but I got so annoyed with my W and her FB addiction. Inappropriate comments, chat’s etc… I rarely called her out on them because I knew it usually wouldn’t do any good. It was interesting though, when W decided to separate, she immediately deleted me as a FB friend, she also deleted a lot of our mutual friends. I was initially a bit taken back by it but looking back on it, it doesn’t bother me as much anymore. Maybe it’s the detaching thing and out of sight out of mind mentality. I know our sitch’s are different but just thought I would share. I believe you’re in the piecing phase? If so, congratulations! Hopefully I will get there.
Me(M):37 W:42 T: 14 M: 11 S: 8 D: 4 W wanted separation 5/5 Stopped living together 5/5
“Nothing can stop the man with the right mental attitude from achieving his goal; nothing on earth can help the man with the wrong mental attitude”. Thomas Jefferson
