Thanks Kaffe: I'm a bigtime reader and researcher, so I love the book recommendation. I'm just surprised everyone here doesn't already have a favorite or two that helped them. Divorce for Dummies would be right up my alley, since I made all decisions up until this point in my life as if divorce was not an option. So I have some work to do to get up to speed.
Still haven't opened my account....
But I can use my company's accounts if I really need to keep an expense private from H. I guess I do need to open one somewhere.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.