Thanks Kaffe: I'm a bigtime reader and researcher, so I love the book recommendation. I'm just surprised everyone here doesn't already have a favorite or two that helped them. Divorce for Dummies would be right up my alley, since I made all decisions up until this point in my life as if divorce was not an option. So I have some work to do to get up to speed.

Still haven't opened my account....

But I can use my company's accounts if I really need to keep an expense private from H. I guess I do need to open one somewhere.


Adinva 51, S20, S18
M24 total
6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out
9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50
5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend
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Happiness is a warm puppy.