Rachael, Put your fath and trust in God and he will guide you. Patience is the other key to the situation. It takes a lot of patience and there are some days that you want to just scream to the mountain tops. What I use to do is put a rubberband on my wrist and each and every time something bugged me or I was beginning to lose patience, I would snap it.
Keep your expectations at zero and you'll be okay.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
