well I am seeing some changes. My h wants to talk to me almost every night and I listen to his problems til he gets it out. We went out to dinner and he told me I looked nice. Long time since I heard a complement. On fathers day his friend came over and I overheard him say to my husband that he was burning a candle for him,that no matter what happened they would still be friends and "hey ya gotta be happy don't ya?" That bugged me, but his wife said the same thing to me.
This week my husband kissed me and hugged me once and today I gave him a hug and he hung on to me for awhile. Still no intimacy but I think i am starting to detach. My emotions have been more under control for longer periods of time. I opened the bible for a listtle help and it said to trust in the lord one time and to have patience another. Thats what I'm gonna do and keep doing 180's.
