Optimist! Are our aliens out together or what? Mine came home from work for Christmas and had 3 weeks vacation...we had talked and decided no vacation ...work on house and do family oriented Christmas in new home...yeah, right. Before he came home ..he called me supposedly from work...caller ID was a woman named Amy's cell phone number...yes I called it back...anyway..make a long story short...He left Dec 27 saying he was going on vacation for a week and has not been back since..only left me 200 dollars and has to be at work on the 13th....
I am prepared for D now. I want him to file...so he has to pay for it.....I am in the do nothing phase...but am going to get storage and put some of my things away...so he can not try to claim them...I have no money...but do have food and shelter....do have four hundred dollars emergency money he doesn't know about...while he took a thousand dollars out for vacation....he had me removed from his account as he was primary...it was not a joint account....so I am f**cked....basically. He has really screwed me over this time but good. At least you are independent and strong....HUGS... If I can stay strong and sober through this...and I HAVE...you can handle your sitch ....you are worth it...you are an awesome woman and he doesn't know what he is messing up....his loss.....if he doesn't wise up soon..... I am job hunting now...and hope to find something anything soon....need to become independent...will even consider welfare if need be...for a while....my H is a loser abuser and I am better off without him...only a miracle would bring us back together.... I have a great love in my life today besides my son and that is God....He gives me strength to go forward despite all the pain....He comforts and guides me....He is always there and He knows what is best for me...even when I don't...there is something better ahead....I just have to be patient....God bless OPTIMIST>>>>>hugs Akgal...
