I think the ML (or is it just plain having sex? a ONS) is confusing. Can you have sex with the person you love and want back in your life with no expectation?
I don't have the answer, it's just a question.
I can answer that. In my case, in the beginning, I think I had huge expectations. Now, I feel it's a good thing for both of us. I still get small expectations but I talk myself through and out of them. I look at it now as two people who love each other (we have both confirmed this), trying to find their way, and enjoying physical intimacy. Maybe it will turn into more, maybe not.
I guess it depends on what the people involved can handle.
M:63 H:53 S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23 M:15 T:16
Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways." H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12 12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing