One thing she said to me that really suck was Assume the Good
why does that suck?
I meant STUCK! oops
I will type more later (hopefully) I'm so busy I want to sleep! but hey I should be happy I'm busy!
Just wanted to share I had to call H this morning about a sitch with the dog. It was all a bit crazy, then when it was sorted. I called him back and said really sorry about all that it's a bit like (a tv show) he made a joke about that and we talked. He also said that I shouldn't ever worry about calling him about the dog He would have had no problem helping and then he said he had been looking forward to playing with the dog and I said "Awwww you'll have to come by once you're back" Cheryl would have been proud then I mentioned the name of a grocery store and he said you want to hear a funny story and told me a story about buying something there and then accidentally cooking it in the packaging. We were laughing together the whole conversation.
and you know why? because I wasn't approaching it like I'm bothering you, or I shouldn't be asking or talking to you about things, or this might be pursuing, I just approached it happy, carefree, no agenda, no drama, no expectations. And when I got off the phone I thought that was a fun convo. and I didn't think anything else. I didn't think he's still going away with her this weekend, he's still living with her, etc. I just thought it was really nice to laugh with him. That was fun.
Cheryl asked me if I'd read How to Improve..and I said yes and she said THEN WHY AREN'T YOU USING IT!!!! I said well I read it and thought gosh I wish I'd known all this before. And she go read it again! use it in your sitch now!!
