My wife has been coming over to watch the b ball playoffs because she didn't have a tv yet. Last time we got into a fight because the subject if money came up. Do I text her and say she's welcome to come watch the game? she now has a tv and i know she may not accept. Im sure i would have some negative feeling if she didn't. I would also get a positive feeling if she accepted.
Advice?
No; it's "pursuing," and you're also admitting that you're unable to extend the invitation without expecatations attached to it.
