How to engage with your teenage D/S during this???

[workinghardguy]

Ask her. The first response will be "I dunno". Don't push, let it sink in. Then ask again. Show interest in her and she'll respond. She wants to be a part of your life too.

And pay close attention to her. Surprise her by actually keeping track of all the social drama that is likely part of her life. For guys the social drama seems so inane and pointless. But for teenager girls it's their universe. Where guys compare the engines in their cars or their level in Call of Duty, girls compare relationships, number of them, width of them, and status of them. Thus they are very important to her. Show and interest in her and she'll reciprocate.