My gut says, and what I understand from DR and DB coaches is, that I am keeping the road home paved and smooth and showing him my changes and how M would be a very different proposition from this day forward.
This is not what DR/DB says. DR/DB says that if the spouses are physically separated and the WAS is not saying they are interested in working on things, that the LBS should adopt the LRT technique, which is giving the appearance of moving on, if not actually moving on.
Me-53 W-49 D22,D18,D15 T-Since-12/2001 Married-9/2004 She Moved Out-5/28/2010 Piecing start-04/2011 Now-together Thread http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2079304