Thanks nhmom! I can safely say that the recent dark streak were much easier than the last three days... Given that and the fact that she didn't respond today nor offer thanks (not that I was expecting or fishing for it) for the "get well" flowers gives credence to your assessment. Unfortunately my gut coupled with her actions makes me feel that it doesn't really matter what I do, that her mind is made up. This really feels like the hardest part of my sitch because I know she is hurting but there is nothing I can do to help. I should be used to it by now but I guess I'm not.

Thanks again for your feedback, I have a feeling a new no contact streak has been started by my W desire, we'll see what happens next...

Good luck to all in your respective sitch's!


me 38
W 30
T 3
M in 05/2010
Separated 08/2011
Stephchildren (all hers) SS17, SS12, SD8
I filed 8/27, she countered I filed response 9/5
Anxiously waiting on the judge!