Great input guys. Mach has been educating me about this. I don't want to push her away. We do play video games and try new recipies often. She luvs my cooking. I text her every other day with an I luvs ya and she responds in kind. It was so much easier a couple of years ago when on a hot day like today she would wait for me to jump in the pool and splash water at each other. Really miss those days.

Keep those suggestions coming. I really have to get good at this. Saving my kid and my relationship with her is more important than saving my M. I would appreciate what a visitation schedule with an almost 16 y/o may look like. W works mostly from home goes to the office only one day.


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden