I know he's read my emails through the years. Just not sure if it was using the history, knowing my password or what. I trusted him to stay out of my business yet had a sneaky feeling. I finally got to the point that if he was doing it, he deserved to see and read every thing I discussed with friends and family via email. He admitted it to me during spew a year ago. " I've read countless emails with you saying horrible things about me and calling me all sorts of names. Well if you think Im an A$$hole now my dear, you haven't seen nothing yet", was what he said. 2 weeks later he was acting like my best friend. I of course addressed that issue and asked him why on earth he would read my emails and not talk to me about what he read, and why does he do that to himself, and of course that's when the subject gets changed.
He should know how to unlock my computer for he's the one that built and and programmed it. Time for a new password. I've been told I need to do a clean sweep to get rid of any keystroke program. I would have to buy 3 new windows programs, because he built me and the girls brand new computers and piggybacked the windows 7 home edition when building it instead of brand new programs.
Thank you snodderly for telling me how he could find out my tax return.
Seriously you guys, Im just tearfully sickened. I just don't understand. Why do they do these things? Why do they dump us like yesterdays garbage, yet still spy on us, and go to such extremes to do it? I just can NOT grasp the concept of why they would still want to keep such reins of control over us! Why does he want to see me ruined? Why does he act like everyting is a competition and accuse me of all these financial trickeries, when the man hid 29,000 under my nose! Its ok for him to put his wife and children on an allowance, have them do with out, while he's in the same home collecting large amounts of money, but Im the bad guy for asking for the agreed child support? Im the bad guy for getting the tax return, when he told me to take it in the first place?
I can't believe the gaslighting.
This is not midlife crisis..... this is sick and twisted narcissism.
All I want to do us run and joing the witness protection program! I really thought after the divorce was over things would be done and there would be nothing to fight about anymore.
Over the course of the last several months I feel that he's been trying to get in my good graces for a while. I have politely not taken him up on these things. Maybe that's set him off.
