She has also been very clear about me not contacting her family. I've done it 3 times. First time I called her dad after an arguement because I didnt know where else to turn. Got voicemail & said I was sorry about sitch and asked for advice. I guess he asked W if she wanted him to talk to me. She said NO. Second time I called her dad again because W had been drinking & wanted to drive to her dads. I left a message with him and he called her. He offered her a cab. She obviously got mad at me for trying to get her "in trouble with her dad". Shrugged that one off to alcohol. Third time was texts to her brother & dad for Fathers Day. Haven't heard anything about that. Her dad did respond with a thanks and also wished me the same.
Well while all this is going on she is inviting her family to our D's track meet and gymnastic classes. I've seen her dad 3 times, her stepmom twice and her sister 3 times all at events she has invited them to. Also her sister is now watching our D twice a week and drops her of with me. So, no contact with her family unless she it's her idea.
My family has all reached out to her, through texts and emails. They have told me they just wanted to let her know they were there if she needed anything or anyone to talk to. She has turned them all away. My family was really close to her and got along great. I guess she is just trying to cut off all contact or things that remind her of me? But she goes on vacation with me and sees me everyday because of our D? Confused.…
