I get a similar feeling after speaking with Cheryl..she does seem to 'get my H' as well. And you're right -it's helps to feel like they are not that uncommon.
I hope you have a super day
((( )))
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home