Just to add ....

Before you can be 'found' or you 'find' someone else to be yourself with, you have to deal with the issues related to the R with your MLC wife. If you hide from it, or try not to think about it ... down the road, it'll come back and bite you in the proverbial a$$. Finish this R before starting another. It's clear that you still have deep feelings for your W ... you have to get over them. You start by detaching. Very hard to do, but one way to do so, you'll find out, is to be so sick and tired of worrying about the R, and what's she's doing, where she is, blah blah blah, that it tends to come naturally. It did for me.

Patience is key. Lots of it.


Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed.
D35,S/D twins28,D22
EA4/04 End? Who knows?
"Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim