Thunderclouds gather in the distance

[optimist]

You know me well, Totite, you know me very, very well.

My word is much more important than money or even protecting myself. My daughter is safe anyway.

What's your yahoo id? I posted mine in your thread.

Thank you kitti and Pam for keeping me sane. At least, this morning it was not the mail...

[totite]

I just went to Yahoo and signed up. Can you believe that totite was already taken? WTH?

So I am totitedb - similar to what you did - I added db as a homage to this wonderful BB!

I am glad that I have gotten to know you so well. You have calmed me down on many occasions, so I felt like I could pull you in from the limb you were about to go out on...

[Trying24now]

Opt.

First of all, I want you to know that although I have not been able to get signed on to this site for days, I have been able to read your posts. MY heart goes out to you and I wish I could give you a big giant bear hug!

I cannot however believe you said this:

I am sorry I failed you all...I really thought it was going to work out..

Don't you EVER say you've failed US, YOURSELF or anyone. YOU have been a pillar of strength and determination to save your M and WE are all proud of you and WE ARE ALL in your corner.
T2

[kevinlost]

ok ok... Thought this through... wait on the lawyer...
just was thinking that maybe his wallet was stolen and he canceled his cards not thinking that you had the gas card..
just thinking outside the box here....

[odga]

(((((OPT)))))

add another vote for agreeing with Totite

[Dagny]

Optimist,

I am so sorry for the turn of events and everything you have been going through the past few weeks. Hugs, thoughts and prayers are sent your way. Ditto on Totite's remarks.

Take care of yourself, you are an awesome person, don't ever forget that!

Jackie

[imalright]

{{{{{OPT}}}}}

I'm here if you need me!

Deb

[Azure]

Dear Opt,
Catching up and my thoughts are with you. I must agree, in NO WAY have you failed anyone. As the rest of that axiom goes, whatever happens, you're a success for having tried.
And I hope things turn around when he comes home.

[Trying24now]

Opt.
Just stopping in to let you know WE'RE ALL THINKING ABOUT YOU TODAY...
You're NOT alone with this, we're all here for you.
T2

[KutieKat]

along with the others, i want you to know that my thoughts and prayers are with you, and please check in with us when you can - i for one am worried about you