Right before you took a break from the board the last time people were commenting about what they saw as your anger towards woman.
I'm not going to go into all of it...for whatever reason I sometimes think you and I are alike. or at least how I WAS! haha. With the pursuing, the controlling, and the need for outside attention.
It can be different than the all or nothing. If she isn't reconciling with you then you can't run away if you want to be with her. This isn't a John Cusack film. No one is going to run through the rain and pound on your door at 2 in the morning and say they can't live without you. (BTW if they do, please tell them everyone in Crazytown is worried sick would they please return)
She believes that if she isn't doing EXACTLY what you want, when you want, and how you want, then you'll probably be mean or distant. What if instead in whatever little communication you had with her you showed her that you could be completely unselfish and only happy for her, only think of her, and validate her decisions.
In other news it is really upsetting to me that she had a medical procedure and all you can think of is how this could sort of make her irrational or something because of hormones and depression. What if the person in the picture was your mom? I mean I'm trying to think of another woman you respect but maybe you don't. All I know is that it would be last thing on my mind.
