No problem NSS. Hijack all you want! Accuray does write so elegantly.
Accuray, thank you for all your input. I feel that your analysis is so spot on.
I have always wondered about how our personality affects how others perceive us. Not for one moment do I believe that my H does not care for me; just seeing his pain at hurting me is proof. When our spouses try their best to be there for us sexually, Accuray, just shows how much they value us.
But the expression of their love for us is not what we want.
I see this kind of reaction to me with my daughter, and even with our dog. My daughter is definitely more affectionate with my H, and pushed me away when I try. But she connects with me, opens her heart to me, sees me as more of a friend than her dad.
About Retrouvaille: It can only help, and not hurt. And even if it does not give you the effect you want, it will still change at least yourself, if not your spouse. I have also learned that I did not love my H too as he ought to be loved, and have made many changes within myself that ultimately can only be good. I urge you to go.
Cadet, when and where did you message me? I looked, even in the alt, and can't find it.
Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18 Bomb: 6/26/10 EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ??? 11/5/11 Retrouvaille Finally piecing.... Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go
