Very true labug! I don't know if it is good or bad, but I find that I honestly don't care about his feelings right now. I realized how little he cares for mine and that I need to make mine the priority (mine and the boys).
I agree that you need to make yours and your boys a priority.
Do you really not care about his feelings? Or is it more that you know that you can't change them?
There is a big difference.. which is why I am asking.
M(f): 40 D'ed: 8/12
Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.