It seems like a very hard situation. At least you are still able to stay home with your children. I feel bad for my daughter because I've been home with her the whole time and now that WAH filed divorce I need to find a job and an apartment and uproot her whole life because of his decision and his MLC(?). It makes me so angry that he has such power over our life.
Your goals sound great! How are your kids doing with the situation?
Me:29; W:37 T: 6 M: 4 D: 2; SD: 14; SS: 17 H filed D: 6/13/12; H moved out: 6/14/12 H moved back in: 6/28/12 Confirmed EA: 8/12