Holy cr*p - a study of 199 cases in Boston found the average total cost was $6,600 for mediation, almost $20,000 for collaborative divorce, and then much higher for litigated divorce. I could see my H squeaking over $6K and having a coronary at $20K.

We have no great wealth between us and it was all accumulated together. I'm not sure he'll agree to spend up to $20K if he could do it for under $10K.


Adinva 51, S20, S18
M24 total
6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out
9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50
5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend
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Happiness is a warm puppy.