I suppose things have been getting worse the last year or so. I didn't realize it was that bad. Arguments were there but we always made up. We spent last year taking lots of trips. Seven or so to Disneyland, Vegas, and a trip to visit her family in Utah. Great times. I think I got a little arrogant over time thinking I could do whatever I wanted and everything would be fine. I have now been humbled. We have been sleeping in separate bedrooms for two and a half years because of my snoring. W always wanted me to go to the doctor but I was afraid. Since the separation I have gone to the doctor for this. I am doing everything now I guess I should have before. Controlling issues that W says I have I don't think are as bad as she says but am still working on it. I have told her that all of our decisions were made together and that if she wasn't ok with something we usually didn't do it. I did the finances so I think when she asked if she could get something, which she always got, she felt like she was being controlled. I guess what I'm looking for here is advice to keep me on track with getting my family back.
