I am so sorry you are going through this. My husband left as well and filed divorce. Remember to take care of yourself and I second getting the books. I have Divorce Busting and Divorce Remedy and they are both very good.
Me:29; W:37 T: 6 M: 4 D: 2; SD: 14; SS: 17 H filed D: 6/13/12; H moved out: 6/14/12 H moved back in: 6/28/12 Confirmed EA: 8/12