My husband says it's okay if everyone thinks he's the bad guy. I tell him that no one hates him that they are all just sad for our situation. My parents are angry with him but do not hate him.

I was very calm about receiving the divorce papers and we actually were able to calmly discuss a few things about them.

25yearsmlc did give some great advice. I will need to re-read the advice.

I hope we have a good day today when he comes over. Not sure when that will be.

Is an IC a counselor? I am not seeing a counselor currently.

Jessica

Me:29; W:37
T: 6
M: 4
D: 2; SD: 14; SS: 17
H filed D: 6/13/12; H moved out: 6/14/12
H moved back in: 6/28/12
Confirmed EA: 8/12