That's a great list, I would add:

11). If you suspect someone might try to talk sense to you, avoid them at all costs. Only seek to talk to people who are like minded and will reinforce your position

Accuray

Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015