Thank you all,

I am very numb right now. I have to go to the bank and check all the other accounts... I do not understand anything.

Do not worry Ellie, he cannot get to my money. The joint account only has enough to cover checks already sent. I had not deposited any more...

I am sorry I failed you all... I really thought it was going to work out...

"You don't throw a whole life away just 'cause it's banged up a little" Tom Smith in "Seabiscuit"