Originally Posted By: veroprado

This morning H said he thinks he may never commit to someone.


This is WAS script and remember to believe nothing you hear. Keep working your plan based on your goals. You have set some goals correct?

Originally Posted By: veroprado


I'm emotionally drained but something in me keeps going and I wish it wouldn't. I wish I could just sever the ties and continue my life without him.


I think you need to dig a little deeper here. What is it that is best for you and your life moving forward, without H?

It seems to me that h is cake eating and its causing you emotional pain. I have been in a similar situation and I think its important that we not look to them to fill our emotional needs because they are gone.

Put the oxygen mask on you first V, get yourself emotionally healthy independent of you h. If that requires you to set a firm boundary then formulize how you would like to implement it.

What do you think?


Me- 34 W-33
S15 S10 S6
Married- 11 Together- 18
Bomb- 6-2011
WAW moves out- 8-2011

"Nothing in the Universe can stop you from letting go and starting over at anytime"- Guy Finley