He will bring it up again if he needs to, I dont think you should bring it up.

Your dynamic with your H was very similar to mine along with many of the woman on these boards. Work on yourself.

You have found the right place so much earlier in your sitch then I did, I think it will help a lot.

Change your time frame for solving your relationship issues. Make it a 2 year goal and then break that up into smaller pieces. Unfortunately this will take much longer then you want it to.


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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13