He will bring it up again if he needs to, I dont think you should bring it up.
Your dynamic with your H was very similar to mine along with many of the woman on these boards. Work on yourself.
You have found the right place so much earlier in your sitch then I did, I think it will help a lot.
Change your time frame for solving your relationship issues. Make it a 2 year goal and then break that up into smaller pieces. Unfortunately this will take much longer then you want it to.
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