I'm a new person

[bustingout]

Wow, that is exactly how it was for me and my family. Exactly. A family in the morning and a family after work until bedtime.

I always thought it was a good thing to do for the family and for our R
The more he was at home the more he could start to feel comfortable around me and hence spend more time with the kids.

Now we are in summer mode. And in fact we are not in the country right now. He is in PA and has basically not been home since March. So actually I am not sure what will happen when we get back into the school routine.

A part of me would like to have him feel as comfortable as possible at home. But then another part of me wants to put boundaries. But, If I can truly detach, I shouldn't really be bothered when he comes every morning and after work.

Hmmm.. I don't know. Something to think about it.

But doesn't it seem so easy to be together as a family? It really makes me wonder why there is all the drama and existential dilemmas4 going on when as a family everything just feels so right.

Bt I guess this is their journey. And now we have our own.

((( )))