accuray, i'm an continually amazed at the time and effort you put forth for us on here. your post are lengthly and caring. you are a treasure.
mab1, every question you're asking yourself have been questions we have all asked.
right now, there's nothing you can do but FOLLOW ACCURAY'S ADVICE TO THE LETTER.
in the beginning, our WAS's are the best damn DBer's in the whole friggin' world! but that is when you need to pull back and let them figure things out.
they will say they don't miss you, they will rewrite history, they will go dark.
you will be afraid that they will find someone new. you will be afraid that they don't know how much you care and how much you are willing to change. you will be afraid that if you don't tell them x,y,z, that things will keep heading towards D when you could have stopped it.
you aren't in control of her. you are only in control of yourself now. take this time to focus on yourself and make yourself a better person. you will be surprised at how much better you feel about your sitch when you feel better about yourself.
i know you're scared. everyone on here is, to one degree or another. give it time, time, time. follow accuray's advice. he really knows what he's talking about and your sitch is not so unique.
good luck and keep the faith!
M:63 H:53 S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23 M:15 T:16
Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways." H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12 12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing
