I see you are very new to this site, glad U found this place ( one that no-one wants to be. ) I take it that you are reading divorce busting books by Michelle, if your not please find a way to order them.
Someone will come along and post the the 37 rules.print them out and follow them to the best of your ability.
Post often......people will respond to U, and you are on moderation...for awhile your post wont show up immediately.
I think its way too early for a meeting with your Hubby, U dont have your feet underneath U yet, and im sure the outcome would not be good.....what would be your plans to discuss? Let him be for now., and certainly dont go to HIM.