Thanks guys! Not sure I'm trying to win anyone back but you know thanks!
H dropped S off last night rather than him taking a train I thought that was nice since it was way out of his way! This morning I noticed the cabinet open in the utility room, a box on the floor, and the video camera bag on the cabinet. I have no worries that H would take something of mine, but I felt a bit funny seeing my things "gone through" He hadn't said he was taking the x, y, or z. And he hadn't bothered to put things back. I don't want to start an argument or sound like a paranoid person (don't touch my stuff unless I'm there) but I feel like it should be addressed. Also he didn't do a quick handyman job he'd said he'd do.
I just keep remembered his mom the other day say oh you know H things at my house disappear then reappear .... And now he's doing it to me.
