Ok this may not find its way out of moderation in time but going to try. Since he brought up wanting to "talk about our R" last Friday there has been no time to do this. My question now is do I start this convo or do I wait for him to do it? My instinct is to wait for him to bring it up again and for me to try to change the venue. Maybe go for a walk and talk instead of sitting on the couch or in the bedroom where most of these conversations and /or arguments have occurred. And I plan to stay calm no matter what he says and not debate or defend myself.
M:39 H:39 S/15, S/11 (both adopted in 2004, my step-nephews, now our kids) M10, T13 Multiple bombs. Latest one 5/4/12, our 10th anniversary. Still living together and sharing a bed up until 7/18/12.
