Hi HBW,

Your first posts will be moderated so will take a while to show up. Members will soon start responding to your thread, but remember that it will also take them a while to see your posts and to respond.

Read posts here, even respond to other's posts with encouragement if you feel up to it, it will help get you off moderation quickly. Also, reading and engaging in other's posts will help encourage others to read and engage in your thread.

Have you picked up and read Divorce Remedy? It has all the DB tools you need. This board is here to get additional support and to help us move forward. Use it to journal in short bursts, every day or so.

Try to keep to one thread so members have a full picture of your sitch and where you are at.