Have you read the DR book, I glanced thru your thread and didn't see it mentioned. I apologize if I missed it.

I did notice that Accuray wrote you a very good post with good advice. You had no response to it. Read that and read it again. This is not easy but it is pretty simple.

Your wife wants space and time away from you. Give that to her.

You are pushing her, she is pushing back. Leave her be and work on you.

What are your GAL activities?

What is your plan for working on those things that your wife had complaints about?

Again, go back and read Accuray's post to you-you won't get any better advice.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss