I may be one of the last people you want to hear from but...
Quote: When he left, he had me thinking that he intended to come back and fix things between us... But after 12 days of total silence I am not so sure anymore. I even wonder whether this is his way out, just disappearing into the distance.
From a WAS perspective, I can see why he'd want some time to sort out his thoughts. I'm certain he's hurting and confused. I think this is probably his version of "cave time".
Quote: I just cannot understand, if he wanted to go and marry OW, why would he not tell me clearly and accept my very generous settlement offer...
He's the only one who can answer or understand that. It could very well be that it's not what he wants. If I'm remembering correctly, he's shutting-down his office??? If so, his entire life is in turmoil right now, and he's going to have difficulty sorting through everything.