One step closer to the edge and I'm about to break

[Fightfire00]

I think your time line of expectations is far too short. See my signature block for my perspective. FF, are you the type of guy who HAS to have a woman in his life, even if it means losing THE woman in his life?

no... I'm not.. I love my wife unconditionally... I have made great efforts over the years to be the person she said she needed... she appreciates and admits how hard I've worked.. but says she was expecting her feelings to change when I changed, and they didn't... so she's left because of it...



Dig deep here. You had two women at once, more than once, and then went online for something...

How did you change that?


shear will... I finally decided that I wanted to give up the OW and wasn't being TOLD to give up OW... so I did it to get my W and S back...

as far at the online thing I was craving attention... that was all... I was getting NONE at home...


But her choice was not made in a vacuum. She's conflicted, which is GOOD news for you. As much pain as she's been in for awhile, which MAY have lead her to shut down feelings as a protective measure, shows that there was also some real love for you too.

I know she loves/d me... and I know it my heart if she would just commit to trying, we could be stronger and better than ever... my eyes have been opened to where we went wrong... our priorities were in the wrong place... I see that now...


Do you know what I'm saying/asking?

Not so much... no... please elaborate... I'm not avoiding any questions intentionally...