Thanks. I figured to him that's exactly what it sounded like to him in the conversation. You were here, so give me my key back.
Honestly it wasn't. I truly wasn't able to find my keys till this morning. It was the only other house key I could think of at the time and figured if I couldn't find my keys I'd need his to make another copy.
Thank you so much for pointing out that gaslighting snodderly! Yes this is what I've come to find out he's been doing to me all along. This is also why I post and get insights too. See he does this to me the minute I start making just a little too much "noise" and/or start standing up for myself. I've done alot of that this past year and he will come back raging, and gaslighting. I tell you one year ago that would've floored me, and I would've been in a heap on the floor feeling guilt for upsetting him, yet completely frustration and anger for knowing that what he was doing was not making sense. It's taken me one year to be able to really start to see the forrest for the trees with him. Funny you can really get to know someone alot better by not being around them for a year.
Okie dokie arti - chokies! Changing the locks I go! I can do it myself too, think I can use the measly little screw driver he left me in the first place.
Also, XH told his mom (MIL) that he's put in for a job transfer up north...to where I know he got wind of that I was thinking of moving. I think that was his way of saying " so you think you can move away and take the kids from me. I can just follow you where ever you go". LOL....his store chain has many other places in oregon I can go if I ever want to. But realistically if he does get another position within his company, I pray he does leave. The idea of him being out of town makes me feel I can BREATHE.
