I'm glad everyone got as good of a laugh out of my "evil taco plot" as I did. Between that and my "you're home early comment" he's seemed to spin back into hard core crazy. He's not home in front of the TV yet, so who knows what he's doing or who he's with, I'm sure it's all in an effort to make sure he remembers I am the arch nemesis, or a haha I can be out late too, since I was out every night last week till 8:30-9:00 (which is late for him). Perhaps he's out getting that tattoo.... or buying that new car. Wait, wait, can't be the car, the title is still in the filing cabinet, I just checked. LOL
Kaffe~ Who knew something as innocent as hello could be taken wrong. Oh the things we learn when submerged in MLC-ville.
Wendy~ That's definitely a Freudian slip if I ever heard one!
T~ You kid, but sometimes I wonder. Things are just so strange, the I want nothing to do with you, but I'm going to open the blind to see who you are with.... I'm going to leave, but 8 months later still here.... toothbrush in the holder, toothbrush out LMAO... you get the point! Guess he didn't like his reality reminder as you put it since he seems to be back to week one behavior.
Snodderly~ I pretty much don't say a blessed thing to him unless I have to, every now and then I will mix it up with a comment, but we see how that goes. I am pleasant no matter what, I vent my annoyance here (lucky you guys!). You are so right about him being paranoid, and I pretty much assume he does as much as possible to pick fights with me, I just don't respond in well usually anyway, but never in the way he wants. I really think they think we are stupid. Like I don't realize he does all the stuff I find annoying on purpose, geez give me some credit.
LOL fairy dust! That's right, went to Salem, became a witch, brought home super awesome fairy dust, waited 2 months and then at the perfect time I made irresistible tacos! You are on to me!
I have been deep in thought this evening, I feel like as much as I want to and am trying, detaching is very hard. I've been doing better, don't get me wrong, but I could be doing a lot better. I don't have anxiety anymore, which is great, but still all of this makes me sad, and the wondering where he is, and where all this money is going, and what the heck he says about me or us to people since none of his family has made any effort to contact me is hard to keep pushing out of my mind... Anymore detaching tips? I'm tired of being sad, I'm tired of being treated like crap, I'm tired of not being appreciated, and not being good enough. I know, his issues.... but how do I get past them in my head?
Between that and my "you're home early comment" he's seemed to spin back into hard core crazy. He's not home in front of the TV yet, so who knows what he's doing or who he's with, I'm sure it's all in an effort to make sure he remembers I am the arch nemesis, or a haha I can be out late too, since I was out every night last week till 8:30-9:00 (which is late for him). Perhaps he's out getting that tattoo.... or buying that new car. Wait, wait, can't be the car, the title is still in the filing cabinet, I just checked. LOL 
