Helpful resources for separation decisions?

[Cadet]

Believe it or not basic DB'ing still applies.
Do not move out of your house.
Have some boundaries.
Let your lawyer handle the really hard stuff.

A lot of these spouses think you are just going to roll over and play dead.

Don't do that.

But at the same time VALIDATE their desires to get the divorce.

Think OPPOSITE.

Sometimes they just want to fight for no reason at all.

You want to cut off all fuel from the fire.

Because they are looking for fuel.

I hope some more people add in here.