mach1, I have read and re-read your responce and feel like I have had my ars handed to me and I am extreamly greatful to you for the advice. Very eye opening. We I saw all the but's I used even after I had tried to keep from using them I was shocked!
I still need to address a couple of your comments but really wanted to thank you!
M-45 W-44 2D - 11&13 2SS - 11&17 Married 10/10/10 Bomb 3/5/12 Moved 5 houses away 4/20/12 Back together 9/12 Seperated 6/13 Divorce Final 11/13/13