Thanks for dropping in, SIAS. I'm not moving up to the condo. I am just wanting to go up for several weeks to see family and friends. I would not move out of our family home until H bought me out of all we own and had paid me everything.

You're absolutely right. I do focus on him too much. But I am getting better. I'm looking forward to my future. I know he and I may not be together but I'll have a full life and eventually, I'll have a mate. That's just how I like to live life; with a best friend.

But I'm not in a hurry...

BTW, I was shopping this morning and a woman asked me if I thought the candle holder she was buying was pretty. Seems it is going to be a wedding present for a couple of "sweet people" who are getting remarried after a couple of years being divorced! Made me smile!

M:63
H:53
S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23
M:15
T:16

Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways."
H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12
12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing