Reading these posts--- it has taken me so long to realise how my actions and words were perceived as controlling. My H used to say to me I was preaching. I guess he meant I was telling him what to do...I.e. Being controlling. I never saw it. Didn't 'hear' him. I used to be so stressed out with worry.

Let go.......

TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home